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What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

11.06.2025 12:03

What’s one positive trait you’ve gained because of BPD?

Comes on , in middle age.

I let him have the joy of his friends( that i would never know myself.!)

Do all the shopping, and cooking and look after all the dogs.

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I only knew my twisted world , and there, is no choice for a child but to live in it. Or Die in it!

She was a women, a mother with her own children!.

My familys so full of ancestral BIG T Trauma.

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As she had lost her son ,to fatty liver disease!

Rather to engertic for me ,with my terrible health, but i was left to run the house, it was a Cottage in Dorset.

He call us down, from where ever he stashed each one of us ,that day ! We were kept seperate.!

Am I the bitch for never wanting to talk to my sister again because of something she said while talking back to me?

It will be my last birthday ,as im dying of a brain tumor and 8 other autoimune diseases.

Trauma lives in the body, as ive explained, but it actually this that kills you in the end.

Like some twisted love , they where addicted to each other

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That life, was meant to be , as the world teaches us great lessons, and leaves us many gifts.

He resisted the act ,that day.

I got to know the terrible awful childhood, he had himself. And his Jolly Pub Persona.

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My dad was a alcholic psychopath, and violent in the extreme.

One cannot hold on to bitterness.

She was in good health!

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But i went to school ,and was locked up evey evening , until he was off out on a bender..then mum would set us free, and we,d be bouncing off the walls,

One was a lump hammer, another was a iron chisel.

The coal was sharp, and i usually had no underware! So my bare arse ,was cut and rossened on the coal..

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Why did i forgive my father ?

But, we were locked up after school.

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I was scared of men, in general

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She stayed with him because she thought he,d grow out of it. He didn’t of course!

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Everytime, i saw a chronically ill person in middle years.

Then he’ d take out his beloved lump hammer ,show it to the kids.

And don,t forget my 4 months alone, in the incubator. Knowing my brother in the womb and my mother voice .The baby knows she’s alone!

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But it has taught me many things other people will , never know!

He did pay me though, i made him (.After i’d trudged miles to get his pension ) Before ,it all was gone, over the pubs counter!

It comes from Big T Trauma and is no fault of anyone who has it.

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I never cut or harmed myself..

You don’ t get a state one here , in England ? until your at least 67 yrs old ! Im 63.

Anyway ,i could never hold on to a relationship.

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The only way to get rid of it forgood ,is sommence therapy,

She died at 55 of colon cancer.

He was a brick layer (when he worked at all) and he carried his tools around ,hanging from a money belt.

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We were not on the streets..

I was grabbed out of my mother hung upside down, and rushed up to the prenatal ward, to spend 4 mths alone, with, only medical staff.

Because , i didnt have the heart to hurt my friend.!.

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I couldn’t, believe it.

And i know him well ,and every thing about him. This relationship, is the only real one iIve been able to keep!

He said i reminded him of an old aunt ,who used to beat him, and when the menapause came, she was placed in a mental home and never was released ,until she died.

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He said i’d end up like her, and he laughed his big rolicking bear of a laugh!

But he said ,he was sick of her anyway ,and only put up with her as i had a friend ,and seemed to be happy.

Youll pack your bags and leave Dorset.

I forgave my father,, and in those years i cleaned and looked after him .

Because huge Trauma like mine is alive.

And, all my friends down the years ,where users.

Took her away on holiday ,with us, my 2 pugs her dog, a Jack Russell.

He isn,t a very sexual person at the best of times!

(And it was in our own minds.)

One women pretended to my husband she wanted to see me for coffee ,and make friends.

But ive been too sick for many years..

Ive learnt so much.

She found it foreign!.

As is all addictions, people can’t leave off.

Im constanly in a state of FLIGHT or FIGHT my whole life

I am a twin , my twin is a boy called Alan. I had a sister and 2 other brothers

She loved him until the end.

When she asked me how she looked .

We could never speak unless he spoke to us!

.I left my 2 sons and my husband to do it. Instead of spending the day with them

I had offered the whole expense of the holiday to her, free.

He weighed in at 5 lbs .I was the second born, and i weighed 3 and a half pounds.

He knew the spot.

She said her life with him ,was love, and spoke to me of all the passion, it had brought her.

When he wanted one of his lessons to be taught!

Your thinking ,but those kids would have been street wise?

Stress hormones Adrenaline and Cortosol ,would have flooded my brain, and they never left it!!!!

I suffer greatly, because of BPD..

She was deluded, and thought she could stay on for the reminder of the holiday!

So, i spoilt her more .

As i gave and gave ,everything to people, they began to use me.

My mum and dad in the seventies!

His mum and dad ,were Alcoholics!

I do have abandomment issues but they come from being left alone ,without my mum, or any of my family in a incubator for 4 months.

My life is so biszare .

I forgave my father, and i took care of him ,until his death in 1999..my mum left us on the 29th Jan 1998.

So whats the point in blame.

My only sister also couldn,t make her life work.

She married twice! .

But i am married 43 years to my husband this July !

Im still living with it.

I know ,a lot about trauma.

Was to survive, this bastard.

My twin will have involuntary pissed himself, but not me at least not, that day!

He was dying to do it , i knew.

And when you live in a life , of being terrified, and shocked, and permantly stressed; especially as a child born in to all this .

Her first husband, had been a gay man ,and he was a lovely person.

I was writing from the time i was a small child.

She got all dolled up, but it looked as she was dressed up to play the part of , Florence Nightingale ,as she descended down the cottage stairs ,like a Queen.

I said to her

Then later on when my husband had gone to the bar..she started telling me, that they where having a affair, and that he loved her much more then me ,and other loads of visious lies.

Where the ultimate outsiders.

Ther’s very good reasons why i was left alone.

All the time i was locked up.

Also my liver and lungs are fatally diseased!

They are buried together, in the same grave..

His abuse (his own) began at 2 years of age. His mothers friend, sexually abused him, from the age of 2.

This is soul school!.

I worked then as a chef ,and a very good one.

5 of us kids, and it wasn’t a big house.

My family never makes their pension either.

The apprentership one gets in Extreme Big T Trauma childhood is insight and extreme awarness.

Another so called friend had bit the dust..

But im a psyci anyway, and i read energy and people, .

Who then, do I blame.?

What did i know ?

I have no regrets .

Especially a lifetime of it.

Insight, and i can spot a wrongin from 3 miles away.

I immediatly know and see what their chidhood was. I tell them you had a awful time in childhood.

He had many friends, who didn,t know the home devil he was, for his sake ,i never enlighted them either.

With Catholic nuns and Church on Sundays.

On the 31st of Jan this month .

But people really die of the Big T Trauma!!

But my sister and my other 3 brothers wouldn’t have come near him every again!

He took out the hammer, and explained again, how the smallest tap ,of this hammer would kill me in a second.

Those are used to try and block the pain, like that of my life out..

I might have to go back 30 generations or more..

For him, I cleaned and cooked and shopped, and spent the whole day, doing a weeks work) in the only day off, i had, besides Sunday.)

I only stopped writing poetry recently, because , of my brain tumor

Although we always gave her a kiss on the cheek. She would shrink away from it!

Due to the real legacy of trauma (B.P.D)

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I watched his eyes light up and his twisted smile rejoice, in his joy of it all.

He’d bring us out ,and we would form the position .

But there where , these other acts only us 2 girls, would receive, (When id have rather had his lump hammer , and chisel.).

Thats was my nicest nick name for him

Im dying but, im not bitter.

Its like, taking poison, and hoping the other person will die.

I will be 64.

I think the readers, may guess!

I was 9 years of age.

At this time i had honed my heart to the same, as that of a lion and i knew i wouldn’t beg or cry ,nor plead.

The same beautiful brown eyes my mother loved so much!

I don,t even have a pension.

I had hoped to write a book about this .

It was going to be , some day.

As i said though i will be 64 on my last birthday!

As i do to all so called friends.?

Put me off passion for life!!

BPD only comes to a person who has suffered childhood trauma.

Even in the coal hole, i said the lines in my head..

Its mostly always from childhood abuse .

One of his many names for me was Runt .He like that it rhymed with (well you know)

Being very nice and never wanting to say the wrong thing.

Why ? because Trauma depletes the immune system.you get terribley ill , with chronic disease from all the horror ,and stress of it.

I waited trembling.

And if you hold on to hate you only die inside yourself,!

As his daughter ,he didn’t even think I wouldn,t do it. (Look after him)

Im kind ,and give many things, inc money ,to any of persons in need. I have a groups of homeless beggars ..i help out daily. They all know me by name!

Anyway, i told my husband ,and he was gobsmacked.

The only rule us 5 kids had .

I was the most vunerable of my siblings. I was born small ,and was sickly ,and of course none of us could ever thrive!

And i lived it daily.

I did it because my mum asked me too!

But it wasn’t much.

Im a true spealist, because i study it for years .And i still do..

And ive living now since 2005, on disablement .(Which is a pittance)

We didn’t no it wasn;t normal life..we were isolated, and taken from Dublin in Ireland ,where our whole mothers family lived , to Liverpool in England!

We wern’t close any more, the family fractured, after my Mothers death, and seeing me annoyed them ,as i was the familys scapegoat..

I was very sick at this time too.

I wasn’t taught any boundries, our home ,was like any war zone , and Dad told us, he had bodies buried, under the floor boards.

Although he,d calmed down a bit ..he still shouted his orders at me and thought , my older sister would be better at the job..

They look at me amazed ,and ask me how i could possibly know it?

So he went home with my mum to her 2 other children.

I had many talking therapys , but they just don,t work.

This is how, and why children get BPD.

She died young (from the stress and abuse of Big T Trauma) of liver cancer!

But im an empath, and i help lots of people.

We all went to grammer schools

I did write a poem about him though, and my mum.

You’d think that being brought up for so long, in those terrible circumsatances ,i would know the ways of people ,and the world, but i wasn,t in , nor of the world .

Thats being isolated in a house, locked up as a child .We never saw any people except in School and we had no relatives in Liverpool!

I ended up cooking for her, and bringing her eveywhere with us.

19 years ,i spent with dear old papa.

And as she herself ,wasn’t kissed or touched as a child.

And as runt ,of the litter .Which of course, i actually was!

One cannot live in the past .

A line in front of him, from the eldest to the youngest.

We born here on earth , for the soul to learn , the contrast, of heaven.

But im dying ,and its too late for me.

I could never make a relationship work though!

So i became my fathers slave and he hated me the most.

She wouldn,t have been !

We were all going out this night to a fancy resteraunt.

Would this be the day?

He’d sit me down, and stand behind the chair, Then he’d make a great show of his beauty (the chesil )and place it behind my neck ,at the base!

I write beautiful poetry .

I was seconnd youngest,

And who doesn’t know suffering?

I of course replied” arh beautiful!

Mine was extreme ,and lasted 19 years

My place (mostly )was the coal hole..it was a small room heaped with coal .

Trauma never leaves you! Its actually lives in the fashia ,of the body .The connective tissue.

My mother wasn’t a tactile women ..only as babes could she touch us. After we grew ,she couldn,t touch any of us.